feeling pain is okay; crying is okay; being sad is okay. if something’s hurting you, it’s hurting you. reacting to it doesn’t make you pathetic or selfish.
Is there anyone out there, from our Blue Night family, that is crying alone tonight? Not crying out of pity for something or someone, but instead because they cannot help asking why they are living in the way that they are? Is there anyone that is feeling sentimental or guilty, needlessly? Don’t be like that. I hope that you believe that these bitter days of crying alone will prove to be the most beautiful days of your life. You’ll realize, with time, that your life is actually pretty alright. I promise you. In fact, I’ll write you a guarantee! The most beautiful thing in all the world is right now. This moment. You. Don’t ever forget that.
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Jonghyun’s closing words on ‘Blue Night’ on the 11th March, 2014. (via hwaitinghwaiting)
any1 want to adore me
can 2018 be the year of healing
*looking in a mirror trying to practice self-love* ur doing great u stupid bitch





